I've Learned

One of the MANY reasons I love my husband is for his positive outlook on life!  I can honestly say, Gabe gives the best advice, steps back and gives an unbiased opinion, and is an overall a genuine good-guy.  He sent me a link this evening, which is kind of ironic because I swear he's said a few of these before :)

From Stumbleupon.com

I've Learned-

that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned- 

that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.

I've learned- 

that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned- 

that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned- 

that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned- 

that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.

I've learned- 

that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something.

I've learned- 

that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do.

I've learned- 

that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned- 

that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned- 

that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned- 

that you can keep going long after you can't.

I've learned- 

that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned- 

that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned- 

that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned- 

that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned- 

that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned- 

that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned- 

that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned- 

that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned- 

that people will forget what you said, and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

****Which ones is most applicable to your life?